I'm Dr. Susan Moore. I'm a pulmonologist. I've been practicing for 19 years.
And last Tuesday, I had a patient sit in my office and tell me she hadn't showered in weeks because she was too scared.
She's 62 years old. Stage 2 COPD. Lives with her husband in a beautiful home with three bathrooms.
And she's terrified to use any of them.
She sat across from me, looked down at her hands, and whispered: "I haven't been able to shower in weeks. I'm so ashamed."
This is the fourth patient THIS MONTH who's told me the exact same thing.
When I first started treating COPD patients 19 years ago, no one told me about the shower problem.
Medical school doesn't prepare you for that conversation.
They teach you about FEV1 scores, bronchodilators, oxygen saturation levels.
They don't teach you how to look a grown woman in the eye while she cries because she can't wash her own hair anymore.
But I've had that conversation 200 times now. Maybe more.
And every single time, I watch the same thing happen.
They stop showering. Or they shower so infrequently that it affects their dignity, their relationships, their mental health.
Then they come into my office and apologize for it.
"I'm sorry, I know I should shower more often."
And I have to tell them: "This isn't a hygiene problem. This is a respiratory problem. And we need to fix it."